Somewhere, over the rainbow…
When I was a kid, I sang this song fairly often (mostly in the shower where I would belt it out). Even played Dorothy in a school production. The encouragement I received from my 6th grade teacher spurred my desire to continue involvement in stage productions throughout my academic life.
It’s interesting how the encouragement of an adult can have a lasting impact on a child’s future decisions. This is true not only when our kids are young, but as they grown older too. They may act like they don’t hear you, but they do. They may act like they don’t care. But they do. You might not immediately see your suggestions acted upon, however, many of the life lessons you taught them as children will guide them in their actions as they raise their own children. Keep this in mind. You are guiding generations to come.
It may not always go as smoothly as you may prefer. Into every life and every relationship, some rain must fall. Try to breathe and have patience. It’s often said there is a “calm before the storm”. Remember, you can find something special after the storm clears, too. Often, if communication, love and honesty guide you, you can find a stronger relationship. And that’s a beautiful, most valuable “pot of gold” indeed.
Life Lessons for Being a Parent to Your Adult Child 