How to deal with kids when they are no longer “kids, but are still YOUR KIDS
Be like water and just flow…
Not always an easy thing to do…but a wise thing, if you can do it! We can live so much freer if we let go of preconceived notions of what SHOULD happen, once our kids leave our nest. They need to find their way; and they will, but not with you badgering them. Let them know you are available for guidance and advice, should they ask for it, but the less you offer it unsolicited, but more calm everyone’s lives will be!
Lorraine Bencivengo-Ziff holds a double Bachelor’s Degree in Theatre/Communications and Journalism as well as a Master’s Degree of Social Work with a specialization for working with children and families. She worked as a school social worker for many years, helping children and their parents navigate school and life circumstances. She has also worked as an actor, voice over actor, story editor and producer, appearing on television, Amazon, Netflix and in movies www.imdb.me/lorraineziff
She writes about her personal life experiences, using some actual conversations, much to her (very good sports) kids’ amused dismay, as well as the experiences of many of the Baby Boomers she has interviewed for this book.
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